Sometimes, the biggest compliments arrive when you are not expecting them.
Thank you for reading this post, don't forget to subscribe!For one dad, a family camping trip to Yosemite National Park ended with a handwritten message from a complete stranger — and a reminder that people often notice the little moments more than we realise.
Jerardo Reynoso, 36, from Sacramento, California, had travelled to the great outdoors with his wife Lucia and their four children.
The family getaway was particularly meaningful as Jerardo and Lucia were celebrating their 21st wedding anniversary.
Camping was hardly a new experience for them.
In fact, heading outdoors has become a long-running family tradition, although this particular trip gave them the opportunity to stay inside Yosemite National Park itself.
“The trip was incredible. While we’ve camped near Yosemite many times before, this year we were lucky enough to secure a spot inside the park,” Reynoso told Newsweek.
After spending time with his family, Jerardo returned to find an unexpected handwritten note left on his windshield.
It had been written by a fellow camper who had stayed nearby.
And rather than complain about noise, parking or any of the usual campsite dramas, the stranger simply wanted to tell Jerardo what they had witnessed.
“Bro, I camped in the spot behind you last night,” the note reads, “let me just say, you are killing it as a dad.
“First off, I watched your wife guide you in as you backed up your trailer and nailed it on the first try without any yelling. Then your kids unloaded from the truck and were mild-mannered and well behaved.”
It seems the family’s arrival had already made an impression.
Anyone who has ever watched two people attempt to reverse a trailer into a camping spot will probably understand why completing the job without an argument earned an immediate mention.
But it was what happened later that really stayed with the anonymous camper.
The note continues: “You told stories around the campfire, and I had the pleasure of listening to the sounds of giggles and laughter. From one dad to another, you are killing it. Keep it up.”
Then came one final observation.
As a final compliment, the author adds: “P.S. Whatever you cooked for dinner smelled delicious!”
It was a simple message from one dad to another.
There was no grand gesture and the person responsible did not even leave their name.
They had simply watched a family enjoying an evening together and decided that the dad at the centre of it deserved to know he was doing a good job.
Jerardo later shared the handwritten message online in a since deleted Reddit post, where the interaction quickly struck a chord with other users.
For Jerardo, the camping trip was another chapter in a tradition that stretches back to the beginning of his relationship with Lucia.
“Camping has been a part of our lives since Lucia and I first started dating,” he told Newsweek.
He hopes that his children “will continue this camping tradition as they grow older.”
Jerardo had not been putting on a performance for anybody.
He was simply camping with his family, telling stories around a fire and listening to his children laugh.
A stranger happened to be watching from the next camping spot and decided those ordinary family moments were worth recognising.
Camping remains a hugely popular pastime across the United States, with more than 50 million Americans going on camping trips in 2022 and 2023, according to Statista.
Yosemite National Park in California is one of the country’s popular destinations for campers and hikers, drawing 3.9 million visitors last year.
Known for its mountains, waterfalls and abundant wildlife, the park regularly gives visitors plenty to remember.
For Jerardo, however, one of the lasting memories from this particular trip may have come from a small piece of paper waiting on his windshield.
No name.
No expectation of a reply.
Just one dad telling another: “you are killing it.”
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