A Texas couple have sparked a fierce online debate after revealing they began charging their teenage daughter rent just weeks after she finished high school and decided against college.
Thank you for reading this post, don't forget to subscribe!Erika Archie and Cody Archie, who have built an audience of nearly one million followers on TikTok by documenting life on their ranch in Gatesville, Texas, opened up about the decision involving their 19-year-old daughter, Kylee.
The pair started charging Kylee $200 a month from June 1, 2022 — less than two weeks after graduation.
For Cody, the reasoning was straightforward.
“Our thought together is that since [Kylee] has graduated I told her… I been telling her, ‘June 1st, our rent’s due if you continue to live here’,” he explained in a TikTok video.
Erika admitted she was less convinced at first. “I thought that was a little harsh, I mean maybe a little leeway,” she said.
But Cody stood firm on the idea, saying: “200 bucks a month is plenty cheap to live like a grub in your parents’ house.”
Erika then backed the bigger lesson behind it. “That’s cheaper than she eats in food,” she said. “We think it teaches them a good lesson in paying bills.”
The family’s approach quickly exploded online, with thousands weighing in over whether charging adult children rent is fair — especially during a time when more young people are living at home longer than previous generations.
According to the Pew Research Center, around 50 percent of Americans aged between 18 and 29 were living with their parents as of mid-2022, while multigenerational households across the US have surged dramatically since the 1970s.
The timing also coincided with soaring housing costs, with both rent and property prices hitting record highs in 2022.
Speaking later on FOX Business, Erika defended the decision and the criticism that followed.
“Nothing in life is free,” she said. “I think we got a lot of backlash from people that said, ‘I would never charge my kids rent. They can stay forever for free,’”
Despite the pushback, the Archies insisted it was never about taking money from their daughter — but about teaching her what adulthood looks like.
“We wanted to make sure that she knew that nothing in life is free, and that you’re going to have to learn to save money. You have to learn that you have to pay rent or pay, you know, a mortgage to live somewhere,” Erika argued.
The couple later revealed Kylee briefly moved out to “explore on her own” before eventually returning home.
“I think it taught her a lot of lessons in the long run,” Erika continued.
“Now she’s back, and we’ve got other arrangements where she’s kind of working for her rent right now.”
Social media, however, remained split.
Some praised the tough-love approach.
“If you’re not studying you’re working, if you’re working I’m not the only one paying bills in the house. Treat adults like adults,” one person wrote.
Another added: “I had to pay rent after I graduated until I left for the Marine Corps. I turned out all right I think.”
Others pointed out that charging rent changes the family dynamic.
“It’s all good. But if she’s paying rent then she can come and go as she pleases. Curfew, other “parenting” rules go out the window. She’s now a tenant.”
Some suggested a compromise — charging rent but saving it for later.
“I paid $100 a month, then my parents gave it back to me as a wedding present. It really helped to get started,” one TikTok user revealed.
“Collect rent then give it back when they move out,” another agreed.
But plenty were firmly against the idea.
“You decided to have a child…not the other way around. Where else would they go if they didn’t reside home with you?” one critic argued.
“A definite no for me… I know it’s rare, but I will forever help my kids… no matter the age,” another said.
While a third wrote: “That’s weak when they leave it will be hard enough. Teach them to save so they can move out.”
Interestingly, public opinion may be leaning more toward the Archies’ side.
A 2022 Newsweek poll found nearly two-thirds of Americans believe young adults living at home should contribute rent — even if their parents don’t necessarily need the money.
And it’s not just a US trend.
In the UK, Office for National Statistics figures show 4.8 million adults aged between 18 and 34 still live with their parents, while research from Aviva found one in five independently-living adults were considering moving back home amid the cost-of-living crisis.
Whether it’s tough love or unnecessary pressure, the Archies’ decision has clearly struck a nerve — and reignited the ongoing debate over where parental support should end and financial independence should begin.
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